It’s your 2026 update.

And I’m going to be honest with you… nothing has changed.

“Date the rate, marry the house” is still one of the worst pieces of advice I see in this industry.

If you’d rather watch or listen to the full breakdown, here’s the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1fYyoZiY90 

Let’s Just Call It What It Is

This phrase is marketing.

That’s it.

And unfortunately, I’ve seen it used by some of the sleaziest loan officers to push people into homes they cannot actually afford.

It sounds cute. It sounds reassuring. It makes people feel better about stretching.

But in reality? It can put people in really bad financial situations.

“But Rates Might Go Down…”

I get this question constantly.

“Jen, rates were supposed to drop.”
“What if the market shifts?”
“What if things stabilize?”
“What if I can refinance later?”

Here’s my answer.

No.

No, no, no.

You cannot base one of the biggest financial decisions of your life on something that might happen.

We’re Already Seeing the Fallout

This isn’t theoretical anymore.

We are already seeing real stories of people who bought homes they could barely afford because they were told:

“Don’t worry, you’ll refinance.”

And then:

• rates didn’t drop enough
• property taxes went up
• insurance went up
• life happened

Now they’re stuck. Or worse… they have to sell.

That’s the reality.

The Rule I Want You to Follow

If you take one thing from this, it’s this:

If you cannot comfortably afford the payment at today’s rate, you should not buy the house.

That’s it.

No exceptions. No “but what if.” No hoping.

Stop Planning Based on Best Case Scenario

When you’re buying a home, I want you to think the worst case.

Not the best case.

Assume:

• your rate never drops
• your payment stays exactly where it is
• taxes go up
• insurance goes up
• something breaks
• your income fluctuates

Can you still afford the house and sleep at night?

Great.

If you’re trying to “make it work for a few months” or “bridge the gap until rates drop”?

That is a red flag.

Real Life Isn’t Static

This is the part people underestimate.

Things change.

• Overtime can disappear
• Expenses pop up
• Kids, daycare, life… all of it adds up
• Homeownership itself comes with unexpected costs

So if you are already stretching just to make the payment work today, you are setting yourself up for stress later.

If You Need Rates to Drop… That’s Your Answer

This is the simplest way to look at it:

If the only way the house works financially is if rates drop…

Then the house does not work.

Full stop.

That doesn’t mean you can’t buy.

It just means you need to look at a different price point.

And yes, that can feel frustrating in the moment.

But long-term? That decision protects you.

This Isn’t About Being Negative, It’s About Being Smart

I’m not here to talk people out of buying homes.

I’m here to make sure you don’t end up house poor.

Because I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it. And I don’t want that for you.

Buying a home should feel stable.

Not like you’re one unexpected bill away from panic.

My Advice Moving Forward

When you’re shopping:

• Base your decision on today’s numbers
• Make sure the payment is comfortable, not just “doable.”
• Ignore marketing phrases that rely on future predictions
• Choose a home you can sustain long-term

If rates drop later? Amazing. That’s a bonus.

But it should never be the plan.

Final Thought

“Date the rate, marry the house” sounds good.

But real financial decisions are not based on slogans.

They’re based on math, stability, and protecting your future.

If you want a team that will keep it real with you and not push you into something that doesn’t make sense, we’re here for you.

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